Change your colleagues. We often outgrow chapter membership, mastermind groups, and even coaches. Yet we can be held back if we feel an allegiance to those to whom we’re constantly “giving” but from whom seldom “receiving.” We have to feel well enough about ourselves to realize that we need to stretch in our friendships and collegiality if we are to grow.
Mindset: Don’t see this as an “abandonment” but as a natural evolution. Star athletes who get in trouble with the law are often overly involved with “the old gang” and have never moved on.