Ask yourself what you most admire in people you respect, and try to emulate those traits to the extent you’re comfortable. If you respect someone’s ability to hear all sides of an issue, or to confront unpleasant behavior immediately, for example, try to build these skills and behaviors into your own repertoire.
Mindset: Others are good at what they do and impress people for a reason. Determine the reason and try to incorporate it into your own behaviors.